Enjoyed the beach, outings with friends and game nights
MELROSE — Richard Thomas Hilden, a man of remarkable kindness and quiet strength, passed away peacefully on August 19 at the age of 71. A beloved husband, son, brother, brother-in-law, uncle, great-uncle, godfather and friend, Rick’s life was a testament to the power of humility and the impact of a generous spirit.
Born on September 15, 1952, in Roslindale, Rick was known for his modesty, deep faith and compassion. He grew up with a heart full of dreams but never sought the spotlight. Instead, he chose to make a difference in the lives of those around him through small, meaningful acts of kindness. His warmth and integrity touched the lives of everyone he met.
Rick was a 1970 graduate of Catholic Memorial High School in Boston and continued his education at Suffolk University class of 1974. Rick spent his professional life at NY Life and The Principal Insurance Company.
In addition to his career, Rick loved spending time in Provincetown, Maine and NY with his husband and many friends. He was most passionate about his time spent with Rick and family, young and old. He enjoyed beach days in Rockport, clams and oysters in Ipswich, outings with friends in NYC and Nahant, cookouts, family parties, cheering on his great nieces and nephews sporting events, poker, scrabble game nights and a good glass of wine. Rick’s quiet strength, unwavering kindness and genuine love for his family and friends were evident to all who knew him.
Rick is survived by his loving husband Richard Turner with whom he shared 40 loving years together. He is also survived by his brother Michael and his wife Carla Hilden of Plymouth. Rick was the loving in law to Donald and Marcia Turner of Ipswich; Lawrence and Debbie Turner of FL; Jane (Turner) Russell of Melrose; Diane Turner and the late Stephen Turner of Melrose; and Janet Turner and the late William Turner of Reading. Rick is predeceased by his parents Fredrick and Mary (Galvin) Hilden; sisters Michele Willard and Irene Kaufenberg; in laws Ruth (Turner) and David Powers and Phillip Turner. Rick will be greatly missed by his many nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews.
Rick’s gentle spirit and enduring faith were a guiding light for the way he lived his life. A Catholic funeral Mass will be offered at St. Mary’s Parish in Melrose at 10 a.m. on Saturday, August 24. Visitation will be held Friday, August 23 from 4 to 7 p.m. at Gately Funeral Home, Melrose. Burial at Wyoming Cemetery, Melrose. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Rick’s honor to the American Cancer Society, St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital or a charity of your choice. Visit gatelyfh.com.
